Today’s forgiving journal is a request for help. #Iforgive
I tried writing this journal multiple times, and kept stopping.
Truth is, I’m discouraged. I had a neat idea for a project called “ForgivingFridays” . I’d like to encourage people to take action to forgive on that day and post about it on their blog or social media, using #ForgivingFridays and #Iforgive. Someone else is doing a similar thing already, although not exactly.
Do I keep doing it? Do I let it go? What I am present to is this.
Love it. Love it all. Ask for love to lead the way.
I think what really bothered me the most is that I was so excited about it. I forgive myself. I forgive myself for judging. I forgive myself for forgetting to have fun.
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When I was walking in NY, I saw a sign outside this store that had “LOVE” written in many colors. That’s what I see for this beautiful day of forgiving.
I don’t know what the name will be or what the form will be exactly. What I do want to do is invite lots of creative expression, such as forgiveness statements, short stories, poetry, photography, video, etc that inspire forgiving in its many colors.
Today, what inspires me is the dedication that I see in people to love. It stops me in my tracks, and I am awed by all of the expressions of the human experience.
I’m still feeling a little stuck, and I am open to love showing me the way.
I love you.
Love, Debbie
ps – this is my contribution for Frank’s Challenge, “The Color of Love”. Thanks Frank – this was a deeply moving post for me.
We all need more reminders to forgive. I love the fridayforgiveness idea!
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Oh Patty, thank you!! And thanks for retweeting my blog too. 🙂 You are a sweetheart. ❤ Love, Debbie
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You are so welcome!
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First of all, Forgiving Fridays seems like a great idea to me. Very good way to end the week and be clear to enjoy the weekend. It might be good to do some freeform writing to clear the doubts you seem to be experiencing. It might be worth just doing it to see if it works for others. Plus do it yourself and share how it works for you. I might also walk the labyrinth and ask for clarity. Just a few suggestions. Light and blessings to you!
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A further thought. If Forgiving Fridays were an MSIA project, how would you be promoting it? Have you asked for JR’s presence with you for this initiative?
Loving you, Anne
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God, Anne, these are such good suggestions. I also experienced your caring reach out from across the Atlantic Ocean and envelop me and this project in the love. Thank you, Anne. As a fellow peacemaker and friend, I am blessed by you. ❤ The adventure continues!
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We can definitely all use more reminders to take time out of our busy lives to forgive. I was trying to think about what I wanted to say, and I think it’s about extending the invitation and being patient. People may not come into the room right away, but if we keep extending the invitation and practice ourselves, eventually others may follow. I don’t know. I was thinking a lot about hope, despair, forgiveness, and reconciliation this last week (and still today). I think a lot of it is about patience and recognizing that it’s a journey that everyone takes in their own time. Ok, I probably didn’t say anything here that would help, but I would be interested in traveling a journey of Friday Forgiveness with you…
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Emily, in fact this is great feedback and encouragement. Thank you. Patience and just showing up are two keys for me to forgive and to share about my experiences and learnings. Glad to know you are thinking about forgiveness and reconciliation, and I’m sending you so many blessings, my friend. Will keep you posted on my developments! ❤ ❤
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The idea that you had was a gift to you …a thought birthed in you, based on your own inclinations and intentions …everything else similar to your idea, is only resonance and affirmation showing up. Let it not bring you into doubt …go ahead and have fun playing with what you feel excited about …it will have your uniqueness flowing through it!
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This completely touched me. Thank you – you opened my perspective. My spiritual mentor has said that intention comes from Spirit’s direction. Looking forward to being on this #ForgivingFridays journey with you. Considering doing themes like “ForgivingPeace” on a Friday. Exciting. Lots of love — Blessings, Debbie
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I am so glad I could contribute to your perspective 🙂 I look forward to this unfolding of your work. Yes, truly exciting …lots of love to you too!
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Hi Debbie, you started the idea. Some bloggers may be inspired by that and started doing the similar thing(s). It doesn’t mean that you have to stop yours. I started something last year, I see that a couple bloggers took on the idea to do a series. I’m not stopping what I want to do. Mine is unquiet, yours is unquiet.Don’t doubt yourself.
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Oh thank you Miriam! So appreciate you and your continual caring of me ❤ Love you, Debbie ps – great wisdom.
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I’m not changing mine even thought others got the idea from me. Even daily writing, as soon as I posted it, I could trace. That’s okay, if they take that as inspiration as spin off to something!
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Debbie, i read somewhere ages ago when i started blogging, thete will be others in your niche doing the samething but dont let that stop you . Because your version is your version , as they are your words and thoughts. Therefore, go with what your heart says even if it is taken you will naturally do it differently…
Go for it.
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Bella, thank you so much! This really moved me. I appreciate your caring comments. You are a gift on my blog. Love, Debbie
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Pleasure
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Pleasure. Also no two writers are the same. Nor are readers the same. Therefore have a few writers write the same topic means that different readers will find the post ,the book that most reasonates on a topic that has 100 posts or books. We are all unique and resonate at different wave lenghts at different stages of life… isnt it beautiful.
Go for what your heart says and dont worry about the rest…
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You started out with a ‘bang of an idea’ for Forgiving Friday’s. If you have doubt play with it a bit in your mind, on paper, till it takes shape and you’re comfortable with it. I’d say go for it!
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Thank you, Mary! Very good ideas. Play has been a theme for me … creative, fun, and joyful. You are wonderful. Blessings to you — Debbie 🙂
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Nice idea
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Thank you, Jim!! 🙂
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Hey lassie, Go for it sounds of course perfect as forgiveness is always wonderful. Love you Hugs
On 20 February 2017 at 03:58, ForgivingConnects wrote:
> forgivingjournal posted: ” Today’s forgiving journal is a request for > help. #Iforgive I tried writing this journal multiple times, and kept > stopping. Truth is, I’m discouraged. I had a neat idea for a project > called “ForgivingFridays” . I’d like to encourage people to ” >
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Thank you, Elizabeth! Your support and love means so much to me. I felt your encouragement go right in ❤ I love you. ~Debbie
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Don’t be discouraged Debbie, you’ll find your way. Forgiving Fridays sounds like such a great idea and has your mark of love and forgiveness all over it. And it’s uniquely yours. Go for it! Love and hugs xo
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Miriam, thank you! I love the image of my love and forgiveness communicating through ForgivingFridays. You are such a gift, your caring is evident and shines through your comments. Love xo and hugs ~Debbie
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What a lovely thing to say. You really deserve it Debbie, always remember that. Love and hugs back xo
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Beautiful idea …… Sometimes we cannot put an idea into action straight away ….. sometimes it needs to take shape over a few days / weeks (or more). Whilst we are going about our day, things will pop up which can help you birth your idea fully. In a nut shell. don’t doubt, or give up. Blessings x 🙂
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Judith, thank you! Yes, inspiration has its own direction and flow, part of what I love (and am sometimes uncomfortable with). My intention is to be open to the guidance I receive from my heart, to love and to forgive, and to do it all with a whole lot of joy!! Many blessings, Judith. ❤
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Do I keep doing it?
I think the asnwer is “Yes”, if you are still passionate about the reason you started.
Do I let it go?
Perhaps let go of the attachment to the outcome of your actions?
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This is so wise, Khurt. I stopped and became aware of the truth in what you wrote. I have so much enthusiasm for this project and now a clearer intention to let go of the outcome. Thank you.
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I would like to do a weekly regular post too, but every idea does seem to already be taken. If the content is different, go for it.
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Thank you, Lacey!! You know, your voice is such a gift, whatever you share is a contribution. Love to you ~Debbie
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That’s so nice, thank you. It doesn’t always feel that way to me lol 🙂
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Debbie, go with your heart and do what you set out to do! It doesn’t matter if others are doing something similar because yours will be unique! Best of luck and I look forward to reading the posts. Blessings❤❤❤
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Oh thank you so much!!! Your support means a lot. I really got it & am touched. Light and blessings ahead ❤ Debbie
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So agree with you Debbie– love God, love people. That’s what we’re called to do. Happy weekend ahead. Have any plans?? xox friend.
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Thank you, Rhonda!! I’m doing a a lot of meditation and hanging out with folks from a spiritual community I’m connected with … such lovely people. And catching up on rest and my blog! Hope you are doing something fun and full of love. Bless you Rhonda ❤ ~Debbie
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I love your Forgiving Fridays idea. Perhaps someone else will do something similar but you are your own unique self. Go for it…
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Oh, Brigid – thank you! ❤ Lovely to hear from you. Have a wonderful day. I really appreciate you and the way you care. It's a virtual hug. Blessings, Debbie 🙂
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