Today’s forgiving journal is about when life throws you a curve.
I’m in Philadelphia right now, checking it out as a potential place to live. I had no idea that this possibility was even on the radar for me until about a week ago. In fact, I once said that I didn’t want to move here.
What I’m present to is the sweetness of being in this community. It’s a little suburb outside of Philly that has such a sense of family – it’s like being in a bowl of love.
I’m also present to this harsh place inwardly that judges my enthusiasm and tells me that I am going to make a wrong decision. There’s not a lot of wiggle room in this place and it hurts.
Time for forgiveness:
1 – Self-forgiveness: I forgive myself for judging myself for separating from my loving when I’m making a decision or looking at something new.
2 – Letting Go: I let go of the criticalness, the doubt, the rigidity, and the need to justify myself to anyone. Just let it go into the loving presence of the Universe so that I can walk free.
3 – Gratitude: I am grateful for the freedom to check out what locations suit me. I am grateful for the growing strength I have to keep centered in my knowing. I am grateful for coming back to the love more quickly.
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When life throws us a curve (like Philly), I am taking my steps with confidence, knowing that I am choosing love every step of the way. Whether I move or stay, there is nothing more important than giving myself this loving and reminding myself that I am bigger than any choice.
As I was walking in the suburb today, I saw a gorgeous bridge, painted by members of the community. It reminded me that forgiveness is a bridge to grace. And as it curves around the bend, I just follow the way into ever more loving.
I love you!
Love and Light,
Debbie
ps – this post is my contribution to Frank’s photo challenge this week, “Curves” – both in the analogy of Philly and in the beauty of the bridge’s curves.
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Perfect timing for a curve. My best wishes with this opportunity.
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Thank you, Frank. This means a lot. ❤
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Philly sounds like a marvellous opportunity for you. How wonderful to be checking out this community. Blessings of a happy curve to you!
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Anne how did you know I needed that right now? Thank you my friend. I love you. 💜
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Love how you always come up with a duel meaning for Frank’s challenge, and teach us a little something.
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Aww Steve thanks!! 🙂 I appreciate this. It’s fun.
I love how you post such simple and creative things!
Blessings
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Happy Week 🙂
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Oh Simona, you too! Thanks for commenting, and thank you as well for following my blog. It’s a privilege to have your presence. 🙂 Smiles.
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Grazie a te 🙂 Smiles
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This is so clever for the challenge. That bridge is amazing. Good luck to you on this adventure. ❤
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Thank you Nikki!! It came present so clearly! Isn’t it a cute bridge too? Anyway thank you for the wishes & so many blessings to you.
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“It reminded that forgiveness is a bridge to grace” these lines are amazing! Love the idea and the post Debbie ♥️
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Oh Meg, thank you. I heard that phrase in a class on forgiveness, and it really stuck with me. Just came out when I was writing this post! Many blessings & love
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Such a beautiful post ! I wish you all the best for making the right decision that is best in your interest. Much love and power to you ! 💗
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Oh Zee! Thank you, I am so touched. 💜 You are a sweetheart. Blessings
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You’re always welcome my friend 💗
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Your courage is on display again! I love the thought, “I am bigger than any choice”. Sometimes I find myself hesitant when confronted with a choice for fear of making the ‘wrong’ decision, imagining I will lose something, instead of gaining something. Fabulous how life presents us with opportunities by throwing us a curve! Curves are special as we can’t always see what’s around the bend. No matter which way you choose, you’ve opened yourself up to new possibilities and opportunities.
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Yes RG absolutely!! So it’s a win win 💜 I love that way of looking at things. You are wonderful. Blessings to you! 🌼
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I LOVE Philadelphia Debbie! How fitting it would be for you to move to the “city of brotherly love.” Positive energy headed your way as you make the most intuitive decision that you can.
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K E, your comment came at the perfect time. Thank you. I was starting to feel down, rather than trusting the love to lead my way. ☺ I appreciate you. Blessings
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Lovely post and take on the theme Debbie. Warmest wishes and love to you on your new adventure in Philly and however it turns out. xo
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Oh thank you Miriam! You have so much loving, and I appreciate this. Big hugs from Philly ❤
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And even bigger ones back to you Debbie from Melbourne. ♥ Have a great weekend.
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Thank you for the hugs!! 🙂 You have a good weekend too, Miriam. Loving xo
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Sounds like an adventure is on the cards! Wishing you well with your choices 🙂
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Oh Nicky, thank you! You are a sweetheart. Many blessings your way. An adventure is such a good direction for me (I’m still here checking things out). 🙂
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love that– “forgiveness is a bridge to grace.” a beautiful and motivating thought. We’ll be waiting to hear what you decide about the move… Hope and pray you have clarity and find the place God wants you to live and serve. take care blog friend. xo
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Rhonda thank you! You put this so well, and it’s a prayer deep in my heart. Many blessings blog friend. ❤ xo
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sometimes you just have to trust you. I am quite sure you will choose well – whichever way you decide to go.
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Oh Janice thank you! This means a lot. Big smiles ❤
Love,
Debbie
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