** I started a forgiving Facebook group & you are so welcome to join in if you like! It’s a way to share in a loving, nurturing community. ❤ **
Today’s forgiving blog is about good friends
I’m aware that I feel all ajumbled in relationships (is that a word?). I have a fear to show all the parts of me, because I think people won’t love me. I started writing a whole story about this, and deleted it. It is just not necessary. What I really want to write is that I am open to
loving myself and others!! I am open to learning how to better communicate what’s going on for me and to listen what is going on for others!! I am open to abundance with my relationships!!
A dear friend just messaged me, “Wow relax Deb – too serious mate. There are no have to’s in this life. It appears that you are letting your mind get in the front of reality.”
Time for forgiveness:
1 – Self-forgiveness: I forgive myself for judging myself for being really tight with my best friends. I forgive myself for judging myself for acting out with myself and with men. I forgive myself for judging !!
2 – Letting go: I let go of any anger, any shame, any needing to prove anything to anyone (including myself) into the most beautiful Light that is available at this time!!
3 – Gratitude: I am grateful for loving myself. I am grateful for my friends who don’t bull shit me. I am grateful for surrendering and saying, I am open to learning more. I am grateful for my generosity of Spirit.
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My friend Dewi has a birthday this weekend. She’s showing me a lot about how to be in friendship. I just gave her a gift decorated with flowers. We have a chance today to hang out and keep celebrating her day. I’m going to take it. Time for a new story.
I love you.
Love,
Debbie
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Beautiful! Wishing you a sweet and mellow Sunday.
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Blessings to you Anne…. Rest well, my friend. Have a lovely evening. xo
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Nice Happy pictures, I joined or requested to join your facebook groups. Nice post as always. Regards Bella
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So great Bella! I just approved your request. 🙂 Going to look for you on twitter and Instagram too! Blessings, and have a wonderful day.
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Already on twitter and instagram as thoughtsnlif
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Great! Just found you on both 🙂 I’m DebPeacemaker on twitter & debbiegrace on Instagram.
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Cool will be fun
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What radiant smiles! Two ladies looking very happy.
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Thanks, RGS! We had such a wonderful sharing. It was a creative time …. we ended up going to brunch and talked about where we are in our lives. I shared about my vision of forgiving, including possibly a traveling workshop for the Int’l Day of Peace this September! (Could be neat) Anyway, blessings to you. 🙂
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Wonderful post Debbie. Good friends who understand are so important. Hope you had a lovely Sunday. xox
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I did Miriam! I think it’s Monday morning for you – hope you have a wonderful, wonderful day. 🙂
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It is indeed. Thank you Debbie. xo 🙂
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Beautiful smiles. Great photos. So much joy in this post! 💃🎉
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Thank you Andrea! Funny, because joy is a key quality for both me and my friend. You are quite perceptive 🙂
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😊 💖💫
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The happiness jumps right out of those pictures.
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Aww thanks Steve! 🙂 It was a beautiful, blessed day.
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Oh I love a friend that wont bullshit me too. I like a good combo of ‘gets me..and no bullshit’ That’s the perfect recipe for a great friend. Debbie, I feel so lucky to call you my friend. 🙂 ❤
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Yes Nikki!!! I completely agree, very well put. And you really made me smile by calling me your friend. I am so honored. You are my friend too, and I am blessed. 🙂
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